Pup of the Month Club’s newest member is Princess Peach Stouten! Peach is a medium-sized, 4-year-old black and tan mixed breed with the most beautiful, expressive eyes. Peach is originally from Mississippi and arrived at the Humane Society of West Michigan on an ASPCA transport July 5, 2017.
Peach was adopted almost immediately after her arrival, but unfortunately Peach’s transition to a new home and life in Michigan got off to a bit of a rough start. Peach was attacked by two large dogs while on a walk with her new owner. The attack was so bad that Peach needed surgery. The new owner returned Peach to the HSWM and they performed the surgery and oversaw her recovery to help get her ready for adoption again.
At the same time – summer of 2017 – Jaclyn and Jason Stouten had been debating adopting a pup. Jaclyn and Jason had been going through hard and disappointing times, after going through multiple miscarriages. They had decided to adopt a dog after their fourth miscarriage, but wanted to wait till after Jaclyn completed one of her graduate classes at the end of August. But before her class ended, Jason heard on the radio that the HSWM was having a Dog Days of Summer special, so off they went that Saturday, July 29, 2017…just to look, of course.
Jaclyn excitedly checked out the adoptable dogs on the HSWM’s website as they drove there and she found one dog they definitely wanted to meet on their visit, a pup named Spotty. As they walked through the kennels that morning, they also noticed another dog they were interested in – her name was Little Girl. Spotty was just a total sweetheart – happy and well adjusted – both Jaclyn and Jason thought she would be a great fit for their family’s new addition. But then Little Girl walked in the meeting room – a pup with a lot of scabbing around her sides and throat and 10 inches of sutures down her side. It didn’t take long for Little Girl to warm up to them, cuddling in to them while Jaclyn and Jason listened to her history, as told by the adoption counselor. They learned of her recent mauling by two dogs, as well as that she was heartworm positive and would require a daily home medication, a strict limited exercise program and two additional visits to the humane society for treatment if they adopted her.
Jaclyn and Jason were torn, as they really liked both pups. They inquired about adopting both, but were told that Little Girl needed to be a solo adoption. They eventually decided on Little Girl, because she was the one who needed them the most. Spotty would be fine without them – she would be adopted with no problem. But Little Girl? Some people might be put off by the scabs and sutures, not to mention being heartworm positive, as well as dealing with her fear of other dogs since the attack. They also really felt in their hearts that they were the ones who were meant to help her on her journey and give her a safe and loving home. She needed THEM.
What they didn’t know at the time was how much they needed her as well.
Jaclyn and Jason welcomed Little Girl into their home that afternoon and she became Princess Peach – Peach for short. The Stoutens affectionately call Peach their Wallflower, as she was so very shy and timid when they first got her. They made a conscious effort to limit her contact with other dogs until she was more familiar and secure with her new family and new neighborhood. Because she was heartworm positive, she was on a strict exercise limit (10 minute walks or less), so this made it much easier to get her familiar with her new neighborhood gradually.
By providing a safe, quiet and stable home and showering Peach with love and attention she has blossomed during the year and a half she has been a member of the Stouten family. She is a people oriented pup and would rather spend time with people than other dogs. Although she does love to play with familiar dogs that are her own size or smaller. She is still a little timid when it comes to meeting dogs that are bigger than she is, especially if they run up to her – but she has even recently made progress with meeting and greeting big dogs.
She loves her many toys, but isn’t very good at sharing. If you start to play with one of her squeaky toys she will come take it away from you, put it down somewhere else and go back to what she was doing before you started playing with her toy. She is without a doubt a city pup and loves to go on long leashed walks – especially to her favorite park nearby. She loves to sing when she hears police or ambulance sirens and word has it that her Dad can get her to sing even when there is no siren simply by howling himself. She will soon join him in a combined joyous sing-song of howling!
She loves the attention and pets she gets from strangers she meets on walks, but her favorites are the cuddles she gets from Mom and Dad – especially curling up with Jason while he is reading. Jason has been her comfort and her initial ‘safe spot’ from the start, as well as fellow siren howler, of course.
Peach needed Jaclyn and Jason at a really frightening and vulnerable time in her life. She needed their protection, love and patience to help facilitate her healing. But with dogs it is usually a two-way street – they give often as much as they get. Give them a little love and attention and they give it right back and next thing you know you have a best friend and constant companion for life. Peach has been such a comfort for the Stoutens every day by simply being a warm, furry and loving presence in their home: the happy tail wag they are greeted with whenever they come home, the gentle way she curls up and snuggles next to one of them or the laughs and smiles that are the result of her goofy antics.
Companionship is one of the greatest gifts we get from our pups. They are with us through the good and bad, the triumphs and celebrations, as well as life’s disappointments. Dogs just love – it’s what they do. Humans and dogs are similar in that they are both social animals that have a deep-seated need for connection – to be loved and to love and this is what matters most in life. There is no doubt that this is at the core of the bond between humans and dogs. The bond that Jaclyn and Jason have with Peach exemplifies this well.
Peach has especially been a comfort to Jaclyn: “Peach simply being present in our home has been a comfort to me. It feels good to know she is around. I needed to take care of something that wasn’t green and leafy. Having her to care for and I’ll admit spoil has been a big help. The final miscarriage was the worst and would have been worse without our Peach snuggled with me on the couch for a week. I agree that our connection with Peach, while simple, is powerful. I just love her. She is a joy in our lives.”
There is much to say about giving to another – helping to heal another when life presents challenges or disappointments. Quite often the way to healing your own heart and spirit is through giving to others, or in this case a black and tan broken pup named Little Girl. Dogs are wonderful at living in the moment and reminding us to love and live each moment, regardless of what life gives us. Quite often we can’t choose what life presents us, but we can choose how we react.
It is always so inspiring to hear people’s adoption stories – some are entertaining and funny, while others are insightful and touching such as the Stouten’s experiences. Congratulations again to Peach and the entire Stouten family! Pup of the Month Club is a partnership of Tailwagger Dog Photography and the Humane Society of West Michigan. It is a celebration of dogs, dog adoptions and the bond between humans and their pups. If you have a HSWM dog and would like to nominate him or her for Pup of the Month Club, you can find more information and an entry form on Tailwagger Dog Photography’s website.
